From your reaction I can measure that you haven't been really bullied during your school years.
I speak from personal experience when I say that being the bullied person in the class is absolutely not fun.
When you are being bullied you feel like the world crumbles around you.
And after a while you feel like you want to strangle them, beat them up, becouse they completely humiliate you in front of your class.
So saying that people should control their emotions, is really not something you can say.
When it happens to you you feel like your dug down the durt, you can't think clear anymore.
After a while you feel frustration building up, you start thinking of ways of revenge, and utilizing them when possible....
So please think before you speak...
Michael