Lose child to adoption? How you mean if you're an abusing parent? Drug addict? Or maybe divorce? Too young? That would be sad then. [/quote]
I lost 3 children to adoption any time you no longer have contact with family there is a loss that is the loss I am talking about. As far as being an abusive parent I probably was because I was negelectful. They were fed, bathed, and had plenty of rest but I was not really there. After my husband died raising 3 children was so difficult no money and a lot of depression. There's more but I will stop there so I don't sound whinny or blaming.