Always Rough Subject
Heres something I want everyones views on. I am a penticostal preacher in SC. I have a wife. After she had our baby she was less sexually active. So now, things just aren't the way they use to be...sexually. I do everything I know how to do to live right so I have steered away from this thing and finally: well you married guys know, you have to just work it out of your wife sometimes. LOL (cannot believe I'm typing this) So here is a thought. What if you masturbated, but you think of your wife the entire time. My wife is very attractive to me, and my eyes toward no other compared to her. I have this question asked to me all the time, but I don't really have a strong point on what is and what isn't. I stay away from this act all together for its better to be safe than sorry, but what does everyone think on this? Thought I would throw this in for even more confusion.