ArchivedHow to help gay friends..Actually you have called me and other ex-gay's liars by stating we simply suppress our feelings when many of us have stated our sexuality has changed. Comparing a dry drunk with an ex-gay is comparing apples and oranges. Yes, there are some gay men and lesbian women who live celibate lives while dealing with their orientation but they do not label themselves ex-gay. Total change of ones sexual orientation is possible and many have done so. BTW, I also know people who have overcome alcoholism without simply suppressing their desires and without attending even one AA meeting. Change is not so much a matter of support (although compassionate support makes it easier) it is a matter of commitment and exerting the effort necessary to attain a goal. |
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