I agree with you as well, but I do think that the Enemy steps in and helps push people in that direction until the day they look at Christ and open their eyes for the first time.
A few years ago I would have been argueing right along side of Javaro. My online name used to be Grey, and my signature would have read 'There is no Black and White'. I completely believed that there was no such thing as good and evil, that each person was free to make up their own morals and rules. Well, that idea lead me down a path of distruction, till one day someone got the message through to me and I looked to God. But until that day I looked to God, I do believe that the Enemy was riding my coat-tails and leading me towards distruction.
But now I am Free, Free Indeed.