Logic, unfortunately I have not had time to wade through all the scripture you just quoted, and I see you have spent some time to compile your thoughts, so it deserves a more thorough response than I am prepared to give...so my apologies.
However, let me just respond to your opening paragraph. Jesus, is is prophesied to return a second time, and He will be the conquering King. Both the old and New test, especially Revelation show Jesus as ruler and conquer of all the Earth. His first incarnation was for the purpose of salvation and to call His church to Him, thus justification and sanctification through the His sacrafice and through the work of the Holy Spirit could begin.
In the second coming, you will agree, that He is sent as final judge and ruler of the world. Yes, from "the ends of the earth".
I hope you can see how this fits Psalm 2.
God Bless
I will try and get though the rest of your post and reply later, but I may not be able to for a bit.
Carol...I posted my other question to you on another thread..would u like to respond?