I explained it all to you, and you make me to explain how I explained them. I outlined the general picture where those pratices fit into.
You try to pull me into your swamp of mumbo-jumbo. I will not. But do not think I cant address your points one by one. I repeat, there's no rape thing. Qur'an 4:3 defines the limits of sex with female slaves with the phrase "with those you own." Or I can say that caliphs ordered Muslim soldiers to come back to their homes every 4 months for both their and their viwes' physical needs. But will those make you content? No, it will just take you another week to come forth with another message of mumbo-jombo, because there are lots of lies and fabrications you can seek refuge in. This can continue forever. This will waste of time for both sides. You should look beyond this!
The only solution is that you will let me define my religion, and I'll let you define yours! Only then we can make a meaningful discussion on what these religions offer to us, where they are successful or where they fail.