Anyone who believes that the Bible says "God created a Son" in the womb of Mary does not understand the Word nor the power of God.
Philippians 2:5-11 explain better than any other Scripture what happened in the womb of Mary in what is called the incarnation.
5 Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus,
6 who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped,
7 but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men.
8 Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
9 For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name,
10 so that at the name of Jesus EVERY KNEE WILL BOW, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
I have no problem with those who choose not to believe that the Word of God entered into the creation He made (John 1:1-14) in the womb of Mary. It's your choice either to believe or not believe.
But I have a real problem with those distort this truth and revelation of Scripture by saying these Scriptures mean something else.
The Scriptures, not man, declare who God is and how He has manifested Himself in His creation.
Jesus declares this in John 14:21,
"He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will manifest Myself to him."
It's as simple and as difficult as that.