Poor child! None of us are going to hell, the only condition is that you have to believe in Jesus! Listening to music is NOT A SIN. LET ME REPEAT: NOT A SIN! You are who you are, and God made you that way for a reason!
Music in itself is not evil, but it depends on the message of the music. Music can be very powerful emotionally, and God does not want us to fellowship with demons.
That's what's good about me, i don't consider myself weak minded, when i listen to rob zombie's 'Dragula' and hear the line
'hound of hell you cry, devil on your back, i can never die'
I don't let messages that might carry get into my head, i keep it clear, i think it's a blessing i have. Although PHYSICALLY i'm not strong >.>