ArchivedDutch study shows gay relationships are transitory :: Re: Regarding the dutch studyRe: Regarding the dutch study Sorry, didn't realize from your many posts that you were "ex-gay". Although not homosexual, I can guess that many imagine that the ex-gay movement (is it a movement? dunno) is out to cynically undermine societal acceptance of what they (and I) see as a mostly genetically determined circumstance -- i.e. their sexual orientation. I'm NOT suggesting this about you. I'm new to the forum and am not familiar with your situation or background or life story. I'm just suggesting an explanation for the "unloving attitude" you mentioned. And as far as your "piece of paper", you kind of missed my point -- the causality I'm suggesting is that the reason gay relationships (at least in this Dutch study) don't last is precisely BECAUSE society has circumvented most outlets for long term, committed, loving, open, gay relationships. Ergo, no good examples for how these types of relationships are started and maintained. Ergo, promiscuity of the type observed. I'll bet that back in the day when society really, REALLY frowned on pre-marital sex you saw the same behavior -- lots of promiscous, private, and unmentioned behavior on the part of young heterosexuals, because there really was no such thing as "dating" in the way we know it today, and no one could afford to go public with "dating" before marriage. Thoughts? |
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