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Yes, God hates divorce. But if you'll notice, in the New Testament, Jesus makes it clear that the only justifiable reason for divorce is adultery, which is something God also hates. i_n_h must make it clear to his wife that he is not going to put up with this nonsense any longer. She has to know where he stands and that no, he is not going to have affairs on the side, just so she can feel better about her own affairs. If he doesn't nip this thing in the bud, then his wife is going to assume that he's really okay with everything she's been doing and she won't be given the push she needs to make some changes.