Abdullah,
I am not using lies to win her. If you look at my previous post to Kindness you will see I encouraged her to talk in detail to her boyfriends family, to ask questions that I would ask anyone else, regardless of their background.
Kindness asked for some advice from people in crossreligious relationships and these people are in that situation.
On that same website is a letter to
"my muslim sisters"
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/humanrelati ... women.html
this is how it starts
My Dear Sister,
.Know that you are man's sister and half of humanity. You are a mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, grand daughter or grand mother. The Prophet said, what translated means, Women are, indeed, men's partners. [Abu Dawood]. You are a member of the great nation of Islam, the best nation ever produced for mankind. No other nation on earth has more great men, leaders and conquerors than this nation. It is the nation of guidance and the straight religion, and it leads humanity to righteousness and truth. It transforms people from worshippers of slaves to worshippers of the Lord of slaves, from life's pressures to the pleasures of the Life after, and from the injustice of other religions to the justice of Islam
Can you honestly say in your opinion that is a lie?
Abdullah, this site is fair and thoughtful. It presents Islam and Christianity and the problems that are faced in a marriage, and especially a marriage where two specific and different religions are involved.
Please be honest, it doesn't matter what religions we are talking about.. this site also has links for Christians married to unbelieving husbands and to Christians in marriage problems within Christian marriages. It is a site for all marriages by Christians and a support group for women whose marriages are in trouble.