First of all, we are NOT discussing if there is a queen of Heaven.
we are Discussing, Apparations.
Please read the topic before you post.
But anyhow i will answer your post.
ONE of the MANY reasons Mary is called queen of Heaven is because she remained a Virgin until death. So this earnt her the title of Queen of Virgins, amongst other Virgins martyrs who died for christ. Obviously Mary as the Mother Of christ would and should have a greater title then the other Saints because the Bible declares:
Luke 1:42
"Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.
So therefore she earnt the title Queen of Heaven, which basically implys her above all the other Virgins of God.
and no we DONT burn firewood for Mary, or bake her cakes.
God Bless
"Oh my Jesus I love you to the point of madness" St Foustina