Peace2God'sPeople,
I'm sorry that you are beginning to doubt Christianity, and I'm also sorry that you are being branded so negatively. I am sure that your concerns are sincere. A patten I see, however, in your postings, is that you seem to think that the problems of the West is due to the problems and inadequacies (or so you think) of the Christian theology. This is simply not the case. It isn't that the Bible is inadequate but rather that some people refuse follow it wholeheartedly. That doesn't mean the Bible is wrong. It just means that people are wrong for not following the Bible. But our stand should always be, "It is better to obey God rather than man: No matter what society might teach or might do, I will continue to follow the teachings of God and His Holy Word." If we based everything that we do on what everyone else does or how the world does it, then we will surely be in trouble because we live in a sinful world. What matters, however, is what God says to do. This is exactly the reason why Jesus tells us in the Bible that "narrow is the way that leads to life and FEW find it." That way, when we see the world crumbling all around us, and we feel like such a minority (no one wants to lay down their life for their faith anymore, as you say), we can still stand assured that we are in the right way. I invite you to continue to read the Bible and ask for the wisdom that comes only from God, and you will find that God has everything in there that you need to live.
2 Timothy 3:16, 17 says, "All Scripture is given by the inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work."
I don't know you, but I feel that you are frustrated from your failed marriage, and it's ok to ask God questions, but I pray that you don't give up completely on Him. I can assure you that He hasn't given up on you. Ask God for the peace that passeth all understanding (read Philippians 4:6,7) and He will give it to you.
God Bless You. I pray you will find your way back to the only way, truth, and life.