ArchivedHomosexual AgendaI cant say I understand why people do that. I cant understand why I never felt emotionaly attached to oone of my children but the rest of my pregnancys and birth were an extream attachment. Human emotions are strange things but I think much of the answer to it can be found in our upbringing or lack there of. You quite right it is sad but true and unfortunatly I am human and humans as majority base if they will be agreeable with many things based on what the other people there are like. I sure as heck wouldnt move into a community that had mean spirited people living next door..a place of worship is no differant. Its not to say a relgian is bad in fact christianity on paper is rather nice but kind of like communism therory and what its supposed to be as opposed to what the people make it are very differant. And just so you know Wicce' or wiccan belife dosnt belive in evil or good gods but rather like humans all have both good and evil in them its ther persons choice to bring out what side they choose to. But in saying that to bring out the evil side is to pretty much damn yourself karmicly. The african religians I am still looking into they are facinating yet brutel and unforgiving. I'm still not gotten over some of the things they do to thier kids so I take learning about it in small bites. I wish it had been that simple but like most things it wasnt as simple as black and white quit and go elseware. We speak of a town that had many people and few jobs and belive me I suffered a bit of abuse there myself but I had a child and school and there was no way I could quit. He was much the same way except he supported his mother. your right lifes not fair and people judge you first on your looks before bothering to get to know you. I cant say I have felt that pain I was truly blessed by looks and being thin (although I DID get teased a little for being scrawny) that wasnt hurtfull it was more irritating. Most my childhood depression didnt come from the way peers treated me but rather family. Good for you is all I can say...I have only kissed a girl once and that was just to make this really irritating Turish guy to stop asking me out.
Useing abuse as a quideline I can say that two of my cousins were abused but not one of them. My aunt is actually a very sweet women a christian who basicly was one of those ladys you see spoiling all the kids around in fact the only thing not pretty much picture perfect about her upbringing was her father died at a early age and her mother never remarried. But not having a father dosnt effect a child to much if the mother is well balanced. Your right about the cycle of abuse and it can be broken with the use of free will unless of course its started by a mental problem to begin with. I personaly was smart enough to never stay around with an abusive guy. Ok i'll be truthfull if he so much as yelled at me I would respond quickly and yes my ex husband did try to file charges agasint me but guess he desided not to when the policeman asked him in the ER is he REALLY wanted to file charges agasint a 5'2 girl who was right at 98 pounds and he stood there 6 foot and over 250. They thought he was lieing. But a women no matter how small can be a strong force if its fed by anger or fear. I dont understnd people who stay in abuseive relationships abuse isnt love never was never will be. I support divorce for abused spouses and abuse isnt always done by men. Thats all we can do is draw on what we have experianced ourselves. Personaly I think its sad if you want to change who you are just for acceptance of other people its your right but I take pride in being me no matter what others think. I would say that to be true if you were attracted to and slept with the opposite sex as well but I base homosexality on the natural attraction which are they attracted to not sleeping with. After all heterosexual people are still heterosexual if they are attracted to the opposite sex even if they are virgins. Darn right it does thats why people who truly belive ina faith can be miracal healed or cured the mind is a powerfull thing. No offence was ment I was simply stateing a differing side point. You can be homosexual and choose not to have homosexual relations and be true to it. Or you can be like some addicts and live a lie and practive the very thing you say you dont. I question truthfullness the same if a person is straight, gay, clean, or under the influance there is no differance. When I say I suppose they can become an ex gay I mean truly. As in no longer attracted to the same sex ..its not about the act of sex and it never was. Its about that base attraction. If leading a gay life style upsets a person because of his moral belifes than all the more power to him if he chooses to never again have homosexual sex. But I wouldnt call him or her an ex gay unless they suddenly became attracted to only the opposite sex. I think the divorce rate for christians verces non christians is only so high because christians dont tend to live together first to see if they can indeed tolorate each other. The spliting up is no differant from non christians I think the non christians just test the waters a bit more before commiting than christians. I understand why christians dont live together first since sex outside marriage is a sin. But in todays world no matter how hard christians may try its pretty darn hard to live up to what the bible says about marriage ..the world is simply to fast paced and unforgiving. I simply defend them as people I cant say thier life style is right or wrong thats not my place to say if it is or not. It does not hurt me for them to do so. Homophobia like racism is one of the worst outcomes of being raised in ignorance it would be nice if it could be stamped out. but that will never happen untill everyone can accept each other for who they are without trying to change them. I understand that some religians feel the need to try and change them to save thier soul or whatnot and while its good intentions it only helps feed the overall problem since attempts to change are met with resistance. I know it wont ever happen but hey human spirit isnt one to give up easly is it? there is much prejudice in the gay community both in ex and current alot of misinformation as well I know that all to well since the same thing rings true for wiccans and pagans and christians alike ......its true the religians are differant from being homosexual but the hatred and misunderstandings are still the base same. I belive some people truly are ex gay and for those who did it because of thier belifes I couldnt have more respect for. But as far as the sex issue goes its never about who you sleep with but why you sleep with them. Its the question of will I still respect myself later for doing this and who is this person and do I really want to wake up to thier face for the next however many years I live. Male female it dosnt matter to me I personaly dont find it to be a moral wrong..the only moral wrong is in useing someone else for your pleasure without true feeling. HEY I got my quotes right! I noticed this time there is not a / at the first one only the las t one! |
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